Bizzare Love Triangle

[himecherry]

La lang share ko lang... ^^x Maybe you can help me!

I've been with this guy for 3 years. We almost got married because of an "FALSE ALARM" thingy. When I went back home and studied, he would always visit me at school and even wait for 5 hours every school days just for me, then after 2-3 months I caught him "CHEATING" on me, the girl txted him and then I knew he had a new friends to me na mga tambay near school and denied that he has a GF. He wouldn't go home for several days and would go somewhere w/ them. Di ako nawalan ng hope, so we, I meant, I tried so hard para maayos tong problema namin. Tapos sabi nya he would change, pero lagi naman nya inuulit, he don't cheat on me any more pero he would always lie to me, and to tell you the truth, parang "FINANCER" nya ko. Alam na alam ko pag may kailangan siya, he's so sweet and caring, tas maya-maya he just wants something. If di nya nakuha ang gusto niya, he would shout on me, 1 time na nag-away kami, pinagmumura nya ko and even hit me. I can't let him go, pro now meron dumating na guy sa life ko, w/c I met here in Cabal, he's so sweet and caring, we would talk for several hours everyday, the guy knew about my BF pro he said na he's falling for me and naramdaman ko na he's sincere, tapos bigla na, kami na, we hid this among our guildmates pro ngaun nahahalata na nila ^^x. Now we're dating IRL, nakokonsensya ako xe alam ko niloloko ko ung BF ko, I can't decide kung sino pipiliin ko, kase if pinili ko ung BF ko for 3 yrs, alam ko hindi ako magiging masaya and madaming prob, pag nag-uusap kami ngaun lagi kami nag-aaway. Ung mga prob ko lalo sa kanya hs ungrad lang xa, makitid ang utak nya, pag may pinapgwa ako or sinasabi hindi xa makarelate ung ganung bagay, tambay and mahilig sa banda, hindi xa nagsstrive para maging maayos ung life nya, financially down, at iba-iba ugali nya, mainitin ang ulo besides, plastic skin ang family nya, pano ung FUTURE ko kung ganun ung sit ko sa kanya ngaun plang? If ung isa naman, mabait, malambing matalino though hindi kasing gwapo nung una pero ung ugali nya sobrang bait tlga, lagi nya ko pinapatawa ang problem ko ang mother nya na hinahabol ung apo nya dun sa nadisgrasya nung guy, tas ung girl na nadisgrasya nya na patay na patay sa kanya until now. He said na aasikasuhin niya ung tungkol sa mother niya and dun sa girl and their daughter. Ginagawa naman nya ung sinasabi nya, pero nattakot ako xe baka masaktan din ako sa kanya. At ung una kong BF d ko maiwan xe prang naawa ako sa kanya, kung ano mangyayari sa buhay nya pag wala ako... Grabe, ang gulu-gulo.

Sorry kung mahaba... T_T

[athchizuka1]

hi to all^^

ako nmn iba situation ate himecherry T_T..d2 sa cabal may nameet akong special guy.mganda samahan nmen till nedevelop kmi sa isa't isa..then sineryoso n nmin to.ngta2wagan n kmi..masaya ako xe seryosong guy tlga!ung hindi tlga mang iiwan..sobrang baet at caring..till nameet ko na friends nya..nalaman ko kung gano xa kaserious sken..ako n dw last gf nya at may plan xang pakasalan ako..till may nameet akong new guy d2 sa cabal na iba dating sken..alam nyang may bf ako pro di xa tumitigil tlga xe na inlove dw xa sken..caring din xa..ngkkausap din kmi sa fon..lagi nga syang ngpa2ramdam eh..nging mas madating n sken ung pangalawang guy!hahaysss...minsan pag ngkkasabay ung dalawang tumawag, mas pinipili ko ng sagutin ung new guy..pg sa cabal game din, mas pinipili kong samahan ung new guy kysa sa real bf ko..ngging unfair n ako!T_T di ko na alam ggawin ko..mahirap hiwalayan ung bf ko xe cguradong masa2ktan un..ayokong masaktan xa..wyl pinaaasa ko nmn ung new guy..omg T_T

[Amanda]

Hi himecherry!

For me, you should let go of your 3-year retarded milk-leeching BF! Not to be mean or anything pero it's already there in your context that you are NOT already happy with him and you are now happy with your new love. And besides, he's cheating on you na. Your relationship won't be healthy anymore unless you talk things out and settle them. Pero that's not the case. He hides these things from you and he's already taking advantage of you.

You don't love your 1st bf anymore you pity him nalang like what you've said kaya hindi mo sya maiwan. Girl, hindi na tama yon. You have to let him go. In the first place, hindi naman kayo magkasama nung una kayong nagkita or nagkilala so he will just be fine all by himself.

Uhm. About sa natatakot masaktan thing. There will always be a point where you will be hurt when you love someone. Package deal sila, they co-exist with each other. For in love, there will always be sacrifices. Always remember that.

So my final advice to you is, if you are happy when you are with guy number 2, GO! You deserve to be happy. Pero if you still have this fear, why not reflect on being alone now and rediscover yourself. Like, take a time off on having any relationships with anyone, gather your girl pals and just have fun being single. I know at first it will be hard for you if you're used in being with someone. Pero trust me, it will be worth it to spend MORE time with yourself.

I hope this helps. Sorry kung mahaba din. Peace.

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